So far, my posts written have been about people that I've met while working at the bakery, which usually have had a happy or positive ending. Unfortunately, not all experiences have ended so well, and I think it's important to include the sad ones, because really, that's life. This experience took place a couple summer's ago. When you work during the summer, it's pretty easy to spot the "regulars" and you form relationships with them, because you see them almost every day. This one man who came in everyday worked across the street at a men's store called "Garvey's." He was known as the "toupee man" because always wore this really bad toupee that was sort of an off-colour orange, slightly brassy, not really blonde. It was one of the worst I'd seen, and because of it, that became his namesake. Just like we were the "bakery girls" he was the "toupee man." Despite the fact that he wore this..thing..he was a very nice man. I'd say mid/late 60's. He always ordered the same thing: a lemon tart, a sausage roll and 2 turkey pot pies to go. One slow afternoon, it was myself and another girl working, when toupee man came in. I only realized it was him until after he left, and after the shock of our conversation had begun to wear off.
First off, he wasn't wearing his toupee. He had very little hair that was grey and sparse. That through me for a loop right from the beginning. Second, he wasn't dressed in a suit like he normally would have been. He was wearing a short-sleeved t-shirt and on his arm he had a cotton swob and a large bandaid over it. I presumed he had just gotten blood taken. Before he said anything, you could tell there was something wrong. He didn't say anything right away, just his order, this time only for the 2 turkey pot pies. Finally after what seemed like hours of silence, he flat out told us that he had just been diagnosed with cancer. He was coming from the doctor's office, didn't want to go home, so he came here. Why he chose to tell us first, I'm not sure. I found out he lived alone. The turkey pot pies I thought were for him and his wife, were actually for his two dogs. Before he left he turned around and told us to "keep smiling." We couldn't really think straight from that point forward. What do you say to someone after hearing that?
When I came back from school to work over the Christmas Break, I had learned that the cancer was fast spreading and he passed away early in the fall. It really made me think about how short life was. From that point forward, I decided that whenever I'm stressed or worrying about something that really shouldn't be worried about, I try to think that no matter how dire a situation may seem, I would still rather be in it, than not.
I decided to post a recipe that toupee man would enjoy. Here is a turkey pot pie recipe that would have been perfect on a rainy day like today. It takes some time to make, but it's worth it.
Ingredients
- 2 medium onions, chopped
- 2 stalks celery, chopped
- 2 tbsp (30 mL) vegetable oil
- 2 tsp (10 mL) dried thyme
- 1 cup (250 mL) chicken broth
- 1 cup (250 mL) milk
- 3 cups (750 mL) cooked turkey, diced
- 1/4 cup (60 mL) all purpose flour
- 3 cups (750 mL) mixed vegetables
- 5 medium potatoes, quarted
- 2/3 cup (150 mL) milk
Preparation
Preheat oven to 400 degree F. In a large pot, heat the oil. Saute the onion, celery, thyme in the oil until softened. Stir in the flour and continue to cook, stirring constantly over low heat for 5 minutes. Stir in the stock and milk. Bring to a boil. Reduce the heat and simmer uncovered, stirring until thickened. Stir in the turkey and the mixed vegetables. Add salt and pepper to taste. Pour into a large casserole or glass baking dish. In a large pot of water, cook the potatoes until tender. Drain well. Add the milk and mash. Salt and pepper as needed. Spread the mashed potatoes over the vegetable and turkey mixture. Bake for 30 - 35 minutes until hot and bubbly.